I Need a New Role Model
Between August of 2006 and March of 2008, whenever I had an ethical, professional, or even personal question, I asked myself, “What would Eliot Spitzer do?” I was positively in love with Eliot Spitzer. He gave me an award when I was in high school for my feminist activism and for those two and a half years, he was probably my favorite man in New York. I so admired how he stood up for people who were underprivileged even though he came from a place of great personal privilege and how he always stood for doing what was right. I also really liked watching him give speeches; he had such an electrifying energy and he just made me feel like I was part of something big and important (like New York State)! This is completely embarrassing, but for awhile I had his picture hanging above my desk, and he consistently reminded me on hard days why I remained a feminist, a progessive, and a writer, when all of these things can honestly be rather difficult sometimes!
Needless to say, my admiration of Eliot Spitzer came crashing down last March and it became very clear that he actually stood for none of the things that I thought he did. And I haven’t quite found a new role model to take his place. I really love J.K. Rowling, but she seems to stay out of the public spotlight and doesn’t explicitly touch on political topics in her writing (although I would argue that the later Harry Potter books, particularly the fifth one, are very overt protests of what happens when governments are given too much power and they have major religious and spiritual themes). I totally look up to Carrie Bradshaw, and I often find myself thinking, “What would Carrie Bradshaw do?” but Carrie Bradshaw isn’t a good person for a gal to model herself after, because frankly, as stylish and empowered as Carrie is, she is also somewhat of an overgrown adolescent.
As I prepare for my book to be published and to enter the spotlight in a very new way, I need a new role model, for professional, ethical, and style purposes (you have to admit, Eliot Spitzer did have style). Any suggestions? Who are your role models, career-wise, ethics-wise, or otherwise?
Kerry | January 9th, 2009 at 7:08 am
Liz, first of all, your blog is great. I came across it at my work; I manage the website at Agnes Scott College near Atlanta.
I’m going to suggest that you can pick out stellar role models in your own community. They don’t have to be famous. I’m inspired by women who start up their own businesses or are championing local causes like bicycle commuting or helping rescue animals.
Also, if I may do a little promotion for work, we are creating the Center for Women’s Global Leadership which you may want to check out. More details are here: http://www.agnesscott.edu/about/planning/strategicplan/globalleadership.aspx
Hope that helps…keep up the awesome work!
Biafra McGovern | January 9th, 2009 at 3:14 pm
Shirley Chisholm is a pretty flawless ethical role model for those trying to affect positive change.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shirley_Chisholm
Or Van Jones.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Van_Jones
Jocelyn Pearce | January 11th, 2009 at 9:35 pm
The sad thing about role models: they’re always human. And, as humans, we’re far from perfect. No easy solution to that one…
Also, a bit of blog love: I nominated your blog for an award at http://teenbookreview.wordpress.com/2009/01/11/premio-dardos/.
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Laura Lopez | January 14th, 2009 at 12:01 pm
Liz,
We all need mentors and role models in life. I have found that you just can’t pick them out of thin air. In fact, the best role models are reciprocal. They should learn and grow from you as you do from them. Thanks for all of your work. It is inspiring for me to see the future of women in you!